Shift and Pivot

I recently shared a mood board I created on @landing.space for a project that never actually came to fruition on our @jennifermanntherapy IG feed.

Like so many plans in life, things shift and change and sometimes they don't work out the way you envisioned. I made this for inspiration for a project related to the new the space my team and I were moving into. A week before moving in, we were told abruptly that the space would not be opening. We had been prepping for a year and so excited for this new venture.

We were shocked to say the least, disappointed and confused. This was a challenge we faced head on and together. We took our time to reflect and not make any sudden decisions. In the end, we still feel confused how this all came to be and honestly still are left with many questions unanswered. This unresolved situation feels familiar and mimics so many the unanswered questions we all collect over the course of our lives.

While it is hard to sit with at times, it has become clear that other great and maybe even more aligned opportunities are now in the forefront. We have really leaned into our values and this helped us define our vision for the future which happens to be more fluid, more open and ever changing. While the board represents an opportunity that never was, it also still resonates and represents the heart of what we create day in and day out.

This particular opportunity while sudden and upsetting, it was not a completely emotionally raw event for any of us. I say this because it is important to know the difference. We were able to see through the fog and find value fairly quickly. Some situations leave you needing more time or process to get through the muck. Even then, you may be unable to find the silver lining or the feeling of gratitude.

Not all situations are the same and therefore the outcome won’t be and that is OK. What is useful is knowing that support such as therapy is a great tool to help you go through the experience of sorting through the rubble. Some questions will remain unanswered, however you may be able to develop a new way of relating to the uncertainty and the unknown. That is what therapy can be used for! If you’re interested in learning more- reach out.